Dating, finding and keeping a boyfriend

Boyfriends, working the scene and internet dating. Such big issues for us gay men, whether it’s about finding and keeping a boyfriend, deciding what we want from such relationships, or whether we’ve just been dumped, or left someone, and we’re alone again.

On the ‘scene’, whatever that is, we work so hard to be cool and confident but it doesn’t always feel like that, and we find it hard to keep our heads up high as we walk into that bar and feel the stares assessing us, or so we think!

Whether with a boyfriend or not, we are faced with those internet late-night chats and profiles, playing around with other men, wondering whether life is just about sex, and using alcohol and drugs to have a good time, or not!

These are the questions and issues we deal with in these Fit to Thrive programmes. Choose the one you think will help you, preview for free if you wish, then pay, download, then make changes to your life that will leave you more fulfilled, healthy, happy and alive.

Finding a boyfriend

This programme will enable you to:
-   gain confidence in going out to look for a boyfriend;
-   be clear on where to go and look for a boyfriend;
-   make and keep to a plan, and take the first steps in finding a boyfriend.

Keeping a boyfriend

This programme will enable you to:
-   understand better what it takes to keep a relationship going;
-   take responsibility for the way you relate to your boyfriend;
-   strengthen the bond between you and your boyfriend.

Esteem on the scene

This programme will enable you to:
-   be confident at gay venues;
-   treat yourself with respect, and have a sure and firm sense of self-worth;
-   be truly yourself wherever you are on the scene.

Internet dating

This programme will enable you to:
-    understand better what you are looking for, and where best to find it;
-    write a profile that attracts the right sort of person;
-    improve your chances of meeting the man of your dreams.

Fidelity

This programme will enable you to:
-    know exactly what you mean by being faithful;
-    maintain harmony with your boyfriend;
-    enjoy healthy sexual and emotional relationships.

Age difference

This programme will enable you to:
-    explore and deal with your concerns about the age gap;
-    be more confident about your relationship;
-    plan for your future together.

Civil partnerships

This programme will enable you to:
-    explore what your options are;
-    work out if a civil partnership is for you;
-    decide how to mark your civil partnership.

Fit to thrive:
Self-coaching

Designed for you if you want to work on your own to make things happen in your life for the better!